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    Ground Your Dream Relationship in Ordinary Reality

    astrolI once had a client who sat down for her 15-minute reading with only one big question on her mind: “Is my husband cheating on me?” I gazed at her astrological chart for about 30 seconds, looking at nothing in particular. I looked up, met her eyes, and questioned, “Have you asked him?” This exchange illustrates the sometimes-antagonistic combination of our fantasies and assumptions with grounded reality. Are you having a relationship with someone that you haven’t even seen for years? Do your assumptions and projections hijack your ability to see with clarity? This is a beautiful month to dream up your vision for the perfect relationship, while simultaneously being real. The dance of these two energies can bring you to the Promised Land if you manage to allow both equal floor time. It is an emotionally risky business to ground your dream relationship in ordinary reality, but so well worth it!

    ARIES (March 21–April 19) Your relationships will seem other worldly, and perhaps a bit hard to bring into focus. If you are single, this is your opportunity to create your romantic vision for future manifestation. If you are already hitched, meditate on softening your boundaries and making your relationship a direct line to the Divine.

    TAURUS (April 20–May 20) Cast your fantasy line long and far for you will surely hook a keeper this month. Do not hold back on the vision for your long range desires around intimacy, and remember that magic happens when you are awake and present to your deepest yearnings.

    GEMINI (May 21–June 20) You may get caught daydreaming on the job this month. Try to keep your muzzy drifting directed on your true calling. There is a divine portal seducing you to trust and follow, and if all goes well, it will seem like you floated easily into your next career venture.

    CANCER (June 21–July 22) Pack a bag and head to that far off land that calls your name. Leave your map, your compass, and your GPS at home, and wander as if you are the mystic following only the magic in every moment of every footstep. You are certain to meet a few fairies and enchanting spirits.

    LEO (July 23–August 22) The collective longing in the air will grip you deeply and personally. There are consequences for becoming too checked out. Check in by opening that dangerous can of worms in your most intimate relationships. The reward is so empowering that you will be baffled that you waited so long.

    VIRGO (August 23–September 22) Why do love and longing seem to go hand and hand? Your desire to melt and disappear is ultimately your true nature moving closer to the source from which we came. Although this hunger to dissolve is easily assigned to your love interest, remember its energy is anchored in your own soul. Sharing this true state with another is the cherry on top!

    LIBRA (September 23–October 22) You may be longing to serve something bigger than yourself, but wonder how. This is a beautiful time to seek out a spiritual mentor or guide. Certain relationships may show you the way to the light if you let go and trust without being delusional or overly gullible.

    SCORPIO (October 23–November 21) Fantasy play is not just for children. Dip into your magic bag and pull out your favorite toys. A true loss of self can be delightful when engaged in a creative process, but be sure you have enough structure to reassemble when called back into your body.

    SAGITTARIUS (November 22–December 21 It’s time to conjure up your dream home and your fantasy family. No need to fuse over pesky details. Just let your imagination leap from possibility to impossibility. The Universe will deliver what is in the highest interest of everyone involved, so trust is the only active effort you have to make.

    CAPRICORN (December 22–January 19) Your poetic words will entice and attract. You can use this temporary gift to beguile or enchant, to delude or to heal. Either way, your words float hypnotically on the entranced folks who step into your spellbinding flow.

    AQUARIUS (January 20–February 18) A little dose of effort, coupled with a prayer dance around the fire, calls in all the resources you need. If something no longer holds value it will drift quietly out to sea, while the new tide delivers enchanting treasure at your feet.

    PISCES (February 19–March 20) You will be visible to all as the shape shifter that you inherently are, but beware that you do not create so much smoke and mirrors that people only see themselves when they gaze into your eyes. A true mystic can take the shape of others as well as congeal into their own skin and bones.