@ Pillsbury Winthrop Shaw Pittman, 4 Embarcadero Ctr. Hosted by Bay Area Lawyers for Individual Freedom and the Charles Houston Bar Association, the event features a panel discussion with Susan Christian, David Tsai, Angela Padillla and David Campos with moderator Brandon Lawrence. 6-8:30pm. http://www.balif.org

@ The Sausage Factory, 517 Castro Street. Join LGBT Rotarians on 1st and 3rd Tuesdays and learn about current projects and volunteer opportunities. 6:30-8pm. https://portal.clubrunner.ca/13807

@ Victoria Theatre, 2961 16th Street. Ray of Light Theatre presents this gender- and genre-bending feast about the tale of one of the Eastern Bloc’s most unique characters. 8-10pm until October 6. http://www.victoriatheatre.org

@ Mountain View Center for Performing Arts, 500 Castro Street, Mountain View. Based on the graphic novel by Alison Bechdel, the show won five Tony Awards, including Best Musical, and presents the story of a loving, dysfuncational family. Performances through October 28. http://www.theatreworks.org

@ Marines Memorial Theatre, 609 Sutter Street. America’s Favorite Dragapella Beautyshop Quartet will reprise their critically acclaimed show Things You Shouldn’t Say about four friends who had a life-changing epiphany at a Bette Midler concert. 8pm and repeats 3pm and 9pm on October 6. http://www.kinseysicks.com

@ Fountaingrove Lodge, 4210 Thomas Lake Harris Drive, Santa Rosa. Dance music by DJ Dave Brown. 2-6pm. Sonoma GayDar on Facebook

@ Lindsay Dirkx Brown Art Gallery, 12501, San Ramon. Curated by Pallavi Sharma, the exhibit includes works by LGBT community favorite Lenore Chinn and others. 2-4pm. Exhibit continues through October 29. lenorechinn@sbcglobal.net

@ Beaux, 2344 Market Street. Guest emcee Au Jus welcomes the Dance Off between Team Mandelman and Team Wiener. 4-7pm. http://www.castrocares.org/