By Joanie Juster –
Looking back at my columns from this time last year, they were all about the upcoming election. Like many others, I was busy warning readers about the looming threat of Project 2025, and the people behind the scenes who were envisioning a total makeover of our government and way of life. Their plans were so draconian, so anti-democratic, that it was impossible to believe anyone would vote for such ideas.
And yet they did. And here we are, one year later, with Project 2025 in full force, and our country nearly unrecognizable compared with what it was prior to Inauguration Day in January.
Any subtle, deceptive messaging they may have used to entice Americans to vote for Project 2025 and its candidates is now out the door. Each day they become bolder and more transparent, their naked greed and unbridled ambition more obvious. And, worst of all, is their absolute hatred of anyone and anything that doesn’t fit into their extremely narrow world view. The most vile, uncivil forms of bigotry, racism, homophobia, xenophobia, and misogyny are on full, unapologetic display. We are living in Bizarro World, where incompetent ideologues and sycophants are elevated to positions of power in government agencies, wreaking havoc and chaos at every turn. Our public health system and medical research facilities are irreparably damaged, endangering the lives of countless people not just in this country, but around the world.
But signs of hope and resistance are everywhere. From dancing frogs in Portland, to journalists standing in solidarity in defiance of orders from the Pentagon, to tens of millions of Americans flooding the streets of every city and town to stand up for democracy, our resistance is making a difference. Keep resisting. Keep speaking out. Keep being loud. Our voices are being heard.
Beyond the Pink Ribbon
October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, and pink ribbons are everywhere. Have you been to Embarcadero Plaza lately? Even the 45-foot statue of a woman there (R-Evolution) is sporting a new accessory: a pink ribbon on her breast. I will admit that I am not a big fan of ubiquitous pink ribbon imagery, largely due to “pinkwashing” that corporations employ, using the pink ribbon for marketing, rather than meaningful support. But when a pink ribbon opens the door for actual dialogue and awareness, it can be a very useful tool.
But what do you need to be “aware” of? First, here are a few sobering statistics: 1 in 8 American women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in their lifetime. In 2024 alone, over 42,000 women died of metastatic breast cancer. It is the most prevalent form of cancer among women, and the second-leading cause of cancer deaths. And breast cancer doesn’t just affect cisgender women. Anyone can get breast cancer, no matter their sex or gender identity, so it is important for everyone to know certain basics.
Awareness starts with getting to know your own body: what your breast tissue feels and looks like. Learn how to check yourself, and understand what is normal for you, since everyone’s body is different. Then learn your family history. Is there a history of breast cancer among your closest relatives? If so, make sure your physician knows that, so they can devise a screening schedule that is appropriate for your risk level. Also, know what signs to look for, and what resources are available.
Studies have shown that LGBTQ+ people are disproportionately impacted by some types of cancer, including breast cancer, and can also face worse outcomes, due to health disparities that include increased risk, and lack of access to screenings and welcoming, quality care. There are some great resources here in the Bay Area, and also an excellent website, Living Beyond Breast Cancer, that includes a wealth of information and support specifically for LGBTQ+ people: https://tinyurl.com/lbbcancer
Sing for the Cure
Breast cancer isn’t just about statistics and clinical facts. It affects every aspect of a person’s life, and the lives of those around them. On October 30, 2025, the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus (SFGMC) will step outside their usual repertoire to do their part for Breast Cancer Awareness Month by performing the Bay Area premiere of Sing for the Cure, a powerful song cycle that brings to life through music the actual words and feelings of breast cancer patients, survivors, and their loved ones, as drawn from their own writings, and from interviews. For the first time ever, the SFGMC will be performing with a mixed chorus of voices—soprano, alto, tenor, and bass, along with chamber orchestra. These moving songs, set to music by ten renowned composers, will explore the full range of emotions and experiences of those affected by breast cancer.
This historic concert will take place at the Chan Arts Center on Thursday, October 28. A portion of the proceeds will benefit Bay Area Cancer Connections, a local nonprofit that provides a wide range of support services for anyone affected by breast or ovarian cancer, all at no charge. Full disclosure: I work for Bay Area Cancer Connections, and see firsthand both the challenges that our clients face, and the healing and hope that comes from finding an organization like ours that provides caring, compassionate support.
For tickets to Sing for the Cure: https://tinyurl.com/SFGMC1028
For more about Bay Area Cancer Connections: https://www.bayareacancer.org/
The One and Only Marlena
San Francisco has a long tradition of larger-than-life characters who make this city a colorful and welcoming destination. On November 8, the city will be paying tribute to one of the true greats: Gary McLain, also known by his richly deserved titles of Absolute Empress XXV de San Francisco, Marlena the Magnificent, and Queen Mother I of California. Gary, who passed away on October 5, was the long-time proprietor of Marlena’s in Hayes Valley, a nightclub that became world famous for its hospitality and as a gathering place for the community.
My favorite memories of Gary were the many hours we spent together as volunteers in a room above Castro Street during Castro Street Fairs, counting the cash donations as they came in from the street. Those long afternoons were filled with laughter, dish, and Gary’s great stories. I miss those times.
The Imperial State Funeral for Gary McLain will take place on Saturday, November 8, at noon at St. Mark’s Lutheran Church, followed by a celebration of life at 2 pm in front of what was the location for Marlena’s, at 488 Hayes Street, and will include a return of the Hayes Valley Follies. Don’t miss this opportunity to honor Gary’s rich life and legacy.
Elections Matter
As we have seen all too clearly this past year, elections matter—which is why the far right is breaking every rule and spending obscene amounts of money to make sure they never lose another election. They are flooding the airwaves and our mailboxes with deceptive ads against Proposition 50, but please don’t fall for their lies. Proposition 50 gives California a chance to fight back against authoritarianism. I have never endorsed a specific proposition in print before, but I’m doing it now: Please vote yes on Proposition 50.
Joanie Juster is a long-time community volunteer, activist, and ally.
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