@ Oakland Museum of California, 1000 Oak Street, Oakland. A selection of videos featuring more than 160 black men from across the U.S., answering each other’s questions on family, love, interracial relationships, community, education and wisdom. Wednesdays through Sundays through February 25. museumca.org

@ SF Public Library Park Branch, 1833 Page Street. An exhibit of then and now photos providing a walk down memory lane of the Haight-Ashbury scene from 1967. Through December 7. sfpl.org

@ Strut, 2nd Floor, 470 Castro Street. The group will discuss the story about Aristotle, an angry teen, and Dante, a know-it-all who has an unusual way of looking at the world. 6-7:30pm. strutsf.org

@ The Fillmore, 1805 Geary Boulevard. Known as the “World’s Greatest Party Band,” the group continues its forty-year run as one of rock music’s most beloved and enduring bands. 7pm. thefillmore.com

@ The Center, 548 Fillmore Street. A silly night of fun and festivities where costumes are highly encouraged. 7-10pm.  thecentersf.com

@ The Castro Theatre, 429 Castro Street. Director Jennifer Kroot’s documentary about the creator of Tales of the City taking a look at his evolution from a conservative son of the Old South into a gay rights pioneer and featuring Neil Gaiman, Laura Linney, Olympia Dukakis, Sir Ian McKellen and Amy Tan. 3, 5, 7 and 9pm. castrotheatre.com

@ 50 Scott Street. Reception opening the new exhibit of rock & roll photography by Jay Blakesberg featuring iconic images of The Grateful Dead, Bob Dylan, Joni Mitchell, The Rolling Stones and more. 5:30-9pm. harveymilkphotocenter.org

@ Wild Side West, 424 Courtland Avenue. Kit Tapata hosts the weekly trivia competition on Wednesdays with music and live improv at the popular Bernal Heights location. 7-9pm. tapatatwins.com