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    Y-our Needs Include Our Needs

    astrolTrue intimacy with another depends on our capacity to courageously individuate and free ourselves from the limiting patterns that polarize us. Missing your freedom and independence when coupled, and perusing dating websites longing for your soulmate when single, are all too common, and reflect the ping ponging of our own internal polarization. Striking the harmonization of autonomy and intimacy is about as easy as tying your shoe when flying coach and the person seated in front of you is reclining in your lap. The Cosmic air is blowing us to the edge of the limitation cliff, and calling us to play with our capacity to be whole within the context of our relationships. Wholeness requires that we accept our need for both intimacy and autonomy, thus gifting ourselves the choice to occupy either need rather than claiming one and importing the other.

    ARIES (March 21–April 19) The temptation to run for the hills chasing your freedom tail will only leave you dizzy and nauseous. Consider freeing yourself by trusting that your primary other has your best interest at heart. Tune in a little deeper to what he/she is feeling and requesting of you.

    TAURUS (April 20–May 20) Do not be lazy with your health habits right now. Copious amounts of sugar will not sweeten your life in the same fulfilling way that a solid routine around sharing time and energy with others will do. This is a great time to seek out a mentor or become one to another in need.

    GEMINI (May 21–June 20) A new flame or an old one rekindled will be the source and point of reference for your new passionate expression of creativity. Be forewarned that great pleasure is often derived from friction, and it will serve you to make an effort to be less fanatically righteous if a battle ensues.

    CANCER (June 21–July 22) You are being beckoned home. The latest chaos in your work life has thrust you back into your shell. This month it will feel good to snuggle into the safety of your significant other’s arms, invite a gathering of loved ones over for a meal, or throw a new color of paint on your bedroom walls. Relax and enjoy a bit of inner peace.

    LEO (July 23–August 22) Speak to your circle of friends, family, and followers with your natural warmth and your newly sharpened negotiation skills. Harmony happens within you before it can be created on the outside. Is your internal dialogue harmonizing with the actual words you speak? Trust your inner compass to choose the best words for the most impact.

    VIRGO (August 23–September 22) You are attracting and manifesting all the resources you need. Value your time and energy and others will too. You may even receive a surprise raise or gift that reflects what you have invested in your own self worth. Allow yourself to receive.

    LIBRA (September 23–October 22) You are extremely visible this month. The magnification of your gift to attune to others makes you very attractive and hard to leave. Assert your own selfish needs from time to time, and you will feel a comforting balance returning to your life.

    SCORPIO (October 23–November 21) You are receiving much more recognition than you realize right now. Imagine being in an interrogation room where people can see in but you cannot see out. This mystery is both enticing and unnerving, as you don’t know if they are friend or foe. Do not start the performance until you know who is in your audience.

    SAGITTARIUS (November 22–December 21) Get out and about and mix it up with your friends and coworkers. You never know whom you might end up meeting out there. Paying too much attention to the cover might make you miss the juicy details that are inside, so don’t get overly nit picky.

    CAPRICORN (December 22–January 19) You are a magnet for praise and recognition right now. The sudden insights that arise from your most recent inner emotional work are lighting up the skies around you like the aurora borealis. Do not let your jealousy or the jealousy of others reroute your best intentions.

    AQUARIUS (January 20–February 18) Your inner shaman is calling you over the river and through the woods for a little vision quest. Any companions that you take with you or meet along the way are likely to have more than two legs and be either furry or feathered. Resist any urges to go back to the village before your vision has become clear.

    PISCES (February 19–March 20) Be fierce and courageous as you free yourself from self-imposed limitations around worth and value. The prize is your capacity to remain whole and individuated as you embark on the desirable and yummy merge. Shapeshifting with another is only healthy when you can return to your own shape and form.