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    The Risk of Dating Unavailable Men

    The Risk of Dating Unavailable Men

    By Scott Tsui– During a recent visit to Southern California, I caught up with Spencer, a 50-year-old gay man. I met Spencer five years ago at a social event in…

    Eight Ways to Fortify Your Long-term Relationship

    Eight Ways to Fortify Your Long-term Relationship

    By Dr. Frankie Bashan– Considered experts in couples’ therapy, marriage and divorce, John Gottman and Julie Schwartz-Gottman have been studying relationships for over 25 years. The Gottmans have discovered that…

    Accept the Reality of Aging and Dating: You Are Good Enough

    Accept the Reality of Aging and Dating: You Are Good Enough

    By Scott Tsui– Recently, I encountered a gay man named Dan, who had just turned sixty. His partner Pete passed away a year ago. Pete initially was married to a…

    Deal-Breakers, High Standards, or Just a Fear of Commitment?

    Deal-Breakers, High Standards, or Just a Fear of Commitment?

    By Dr. Frankie Bashan– When you look around, does it seem like everyone has a “plus one” except you? Do your friends all comment, “You’re such a catch. I can’t…

    Discover the Capacity to Love

    Discover the Capacity to Love

    By Scott Tsui– While vacationing in Mexico, I met a married gay couple from Texas, Jack and Richard. They’d been together for 32 years. Their relationship began when they started…

    Not-So-Secret Secrets to Lesbian Dating Success

    Not-So-Secret Secrets to Lesbian Dating Success

    By Dr. Frankie Bashan– On a daily basis, I talk to a lot of lesbians. Whether it’s at a Single Mingle event, in the course of a consultation or as…

    Learning to Love

    Learning to Love

    By Scott Tsui– Hey people, wake up! We have a life to lead and adventures to discover in relationships. Now is the time to start learning how to go about…

    Congratulations, Joseph and Maurice!

    Congratulations, Joseph and Maurice!

    Castro residents Joseph Fernicola and Maurice Chang celebrated their marriage at San Francisco City Hall on Wednesday, November 21. They were joined, on Friday evening, November 23, at Hamburger Mary’s…

    Authenticity: How to Be Real

    Authenticity: How to Be Real

    By Scott Tsui– A gay man named Joe recently told me how his relationship ended. His ex, Pete, caught him telling too many lies. Joe’s lies were so plentiful that…

    How to Introduce Your Older/Younger Partner to Your Family

    How to Introduce Your Older/Younger Partner to Your Family

    By Dr. Frankie Bashan– Large age differences in lesbian relationships are more common than you think. According to a 2013 survey, LGBT people are more likely than straight people to…

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